How does one succeed in life?

That's it for today.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What is the most craziest dream you ever had?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Who believes that Speaker Mike Johnson will certify ‘a free and fair and legal election'? Who believes that Speaker Mike Johnson will NOT certify ‘a free and fair and legal election'? Why?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How do I stop having work crushes because I only keep getting disappointed almost every day as I keep seeing they don’t like me back and won’t ever ask me out?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

If you were a writer for HBO, how would you rewrite the final season of Game of Thrones?

Procrastinates a lot.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What do you think of the Black history lessons in the PBS documentary about jazz pianist-singer Hazel Scott?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What do teens do at night?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why does my penis look like a mushroom when it gets big?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Who is Meghan Markle and why is she so controversial on the Internet?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How severely should I get punished? Please describe throughly. Today I got my result of my test nd I found out that I failed in 2 subjects, my parents are currently in abroad nd I lied to them about the fail but I feel guilty now.

Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is it socially acceptable for individuals to wear clothing typically associated with the opposite gender? What are some reasons for or against this practice?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Could the guys here tell me how their first experience with a trans woman was? Who was the lady to you? ( I mean girlfriend, one night stand, etc.) I just had my first experience recently and I would like to know about others?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Making more friends is a goal.